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#297 - When life slams a door shut, do you see it as an end or as a nudge towards something greater? Join me on Organized Chaos as we explore the idea that closed doors may just be the universe guiding us toward new and rewarding paths. Through personal stories and heartfelt chats, we navigate the emotional landscape that follows unexpected setbacks—whether it's a fizzled project or a relationship that ended too soon. I share how a failed project once left me feeling defeated, only to later realize it was preparing me for something better. This episode invites you to shift from "Why did this happen to me?" to "What is this trying to show me?" and uncover the hidden opportunities in life's detours.
Tune in as we discuss how reframing our mindset can reveal untapped potential—even in moments of chaos. We'll unravel the subtle signs and encounters that often go unnoticed, yet hold the keys to your next big opportunity. From my own experiences to insightful conversations with fellow busy moms and experts, expect to uncover strategies to navigate life's unpredictability with intention and grace. Whether you're in the middle of a life transition or simply juggling everyday chaos, this episode offers inspiration and empowerment to embrace the unexpected with open arms.
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Hey, my name is Teresa Hildebrand and this is Organized Chaos.
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We take a deep dive into living with intentionality, focusing on what's important in our lives so we can truly feel our best.
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It may feel chaotic at times, but with a little organization, the right mindset and a ton of self-love, we can still thrive.
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Join me as we talk to other busy moms and experts who will share tips and strategies to help you reach your goals.
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Hope you enjoy this episode of Organized Chaos.
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Now on to the show.
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Hey friends, welcome back to another episode of Organized Chaos.
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If you're new here, welcome to the space where we get real about juggling the chaos of life with some kind of order, and if you are a returning listener, you already know we're in this together.
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So today I want to talk about something that's probably hit us all at some point when a door closes in our life.
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It might be a job opportunity that didn't pan out, it might be a project where you were excited and it just didn't take off, or even a relationship that ended unexpectedly.
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So we've all been there right.
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It can feel like you're standing at a dead end, with no idea where to go next.
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But what if I told you that closed doors weren't the end.
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What if it's actually the beginning of a new path, like an unexpected opportunity that you didn't see coming?
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That's what we're going to be diving in today.
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I want this to be an episode to feel like we're just having a chat over coffee, reflecting on those moments that didn't go as planned and how they might actually be turning points we didn't even know we needed.
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So let's start by talking about that feeling when a door closes in your life.
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It's such a gut punch, isn't it?
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Like you pour your heart into something you're all in and then, bam, the door slams shut.
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It's disappointing, you may feel frustrated and it's easy to feel like you've failed or that you missed your shot.
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I remember a few years back I was working on a project I was super passionate about.
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I thought it was going to be that big thing that took everything to the next level, but then guess what?
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It completely fell through, and at that point I felt like all that hard work was for nothing.
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But what I didn't realize was that the skills and lessons I learned during that process would actually set me up for something even better down the line.
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It's so normal to feel a wave of emotions when things don't go as planned, and we should allow ourselves to feel those things.
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But it's important not to get stuck there, because sometimes that closed door is really just a detour steering us in a new direction or maybe an unexpected opportunity.
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So let's talk about shifting our perspective.
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It's easy to see a closed door as a failure or a missed opportunity, but what if we looked at it as a nudge, a little push from the universe saying hey, you're meant to go a different direction?
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I've learned that when we reframe our thinking from why did this happen to me?
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To what is this trying to show me, we can open ourselves up to new possibilities.
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It's not always easy, right, because we like to have control, we like to know what's coming next, but some of the most incredible opportunities in my life came from the moments of uncertainty, when I had to pivot and try something new.
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I once read a quote that stated sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck, and that really stuck with me.
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It's a reminder that we can't always see the big picture when we're in the thick of things, that we can't always see the big picture when we're in the thick of things, but looking back, those detours often lead us to places we never even imagined.
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Now I want to talk about those little signs.
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We might miss the subtle hints that a new opportunity is on the horizon.
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Sometimes it's a conversation that sparks a new idea, or like a chance encounter with someone who introduces you to something completely different.
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These are the little breadcrumbs that life leaves for us.
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I remember once, after one of those doors slammed shut in my face, I was feeling pretty low.
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I ended up chatting with a friend who just happened to mention a project she was working on, and it wasn't even something I was initially interested in.
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But the more we talked, the more I realized it was exactly what I needed to dive into next.
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If I hadn't been open to listening, I would have missed it completely.
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The key is to stay open, even when you're feeling down.
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Sometimes we're so focused on that closed door in front of us that we miss the window opening right next to it.
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Let's get into the idea of staying open to new possibilities.
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I know it sounds simple, but it's easier said than done.
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When something doesn't go as planned sometimes, our instinct is to often retreat, to like protect ourselves from the disappointment again.
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But what if, instead, we approach these moments with curiosity.
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What if we asked ourselves Approach these moments with curiosity.
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What if we asked ourselves what's next?
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What can I learn from this?
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When we embrace the uncertainty with an open heart, it can lead to the most amazing opportunities.
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I've seen it in my own life time and time again.
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There's a reason why people say trust the timing of your life.
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It's because when we let go of the need to control every single detail, we make space for things to unfold.
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Okay, so I want to leave you with something to think about.
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What door has recently closed for you?
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Maybe it was a job, maybe it was a business deal, maybe it was a potential client, or even a relationship.
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Take a moment to like really sit with it and then ask yourself what might this be making space for in my life?
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What new path could be opening up that I haven't noticed yet?
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These moments can feel like setbacks, but they are often the very thing that sets us up for the greatest comebacks.
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I challenge you to look at your own life and find the hidden opportunities in those closed doors, and if you feel like sharing, I'd love to hear your stories.
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You can always reach out to me on social media or just leave a comment.
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I want to thank you for spending time with me today.
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I know these moments of uncertainty can be really tough, but I hope this episode has given you a little bit of comfort and maybe even a new perspective on the closed door in your life.
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Remember, when one door closes, it doesn't mean it's the end of the road.
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It's often the start of, like, a brand new adventure, one that might lead you somewhere even better than you imagined.
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And if this resonated with you, please take a moment to share it with your friends who might need a little inspiration today.
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And if you haven't already, make sure you follow this podcast so you don't miss any future episodes.
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We've got some amazing conversations coming up that I can't wait to share with you.
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All right, that's it for today.
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I'm sending all the love and encouragement on your journey.
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Until next time, keep embracing the chaos and finding your own path.
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I'll see you in the next episode of Organized Chaos.
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I hope you have an amazing day and I'll see you next week.
